MatchyMatch
Specialist therapy

Therapy for trauma & PTSD

Trauma isn't 'in the past' if your body still reacts as though it's happening now. Talk to a UK therapist trained in EMDR, trauma-focused CBT, or somatic approaches. NICE-recommended therapies, verified credentials, free 15-minute discovery call.

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What we mean by trauma

Trauma is what's left in the body and the nervous system after an experience that overwhelmed your ability to cope at the time. It can come from a single event (an accident, an assault, a sudden bereavement) or from chronic, repeated experiences (childhood neglect, ongoing abuse, sustained medical trauma, war).

About 4% of UK adults have PTSD at some point. Complex PTSD (cPTSD) — recognised in ICD-11 — affects more, particularly people whose trauma was relational and ongoing rather than a single incident. Many people who don't tick the formal PTSD criteria still live with the after-effects.

NICE NG116 (the UK guideline for PTSD) recommends trauma-focused CBT and EMDR as first-line treatments for adults. For complex or developmental trauma, longer-term phase-based work — building stability and resources first, then processing — is the standard.

Common signs and symptoms:

  • Intrusive memories, flashbacks, or vivid nightmares
  • Strong physical reactions to reminders (heart racing, breathlessness, dissociation)
  • Avoidance — places, people, conversations linked to what happened
  • Hyperarousal — feeling constantly on edge, exaggerated startle response
  • Negative shifts in mood, beliefs, or sense of self
  • Emotional numbness or feeling cut off from yourself or others
  • Difficulty sleeping, concentrating, regulating emotion
  • For complex trauma: chronic shame, relational difficulties, identity disturbance

Evidence-based therapies for trauma

EMDR

NICE-recommended for adult PTSD. Often resolves single-incident trauma in 6-12 sessions. Look for therapists accredited by the EMDR UK & Ireland Association.

Trauma-focused CBT (TF-CBT)

Also NICE-recommended for adult PTSD; the most-evidenced talking therapy for trauma. Combines stabilisation, processing, and reintegration.

Phase-based approach for complex trauma

For complex / developmental trauma (cPTSD), most ethical approaches are phase-based: stability and resourcing first, processing only when the nervous system can handle it, integration last. Skipping the first phase causes harm.

Somatic Experiencing (SE)

Peter Levine's body-based approach to trauma, working with the autonomic nervous system. Particularly useful when talking-only therapies haven't reached the somatic residue.

Internal Family Systems (IFS)

Richard Schwartz's parts-based model. Useful for complex trauma where the aftermath shows up as a fragmented inner experience — different parts pulled in different directions.

Specialist services

For sexual violence: Rape Crisis (rapecrisis.org.uk), SurvivorsUK (survivorsuk.org). For refugees and torture survivors: Freedom from Torture (freedomfromtorture.org). All offer free specialist support.

Why work with a MatchyMatch therapist?

Trauma-trained, not generalist

Trauma work needs specific training and supervision. We list therapists with explicit trauma training — EMDR UK & Ireland accreditation, trauma-focused CBT supervised practice, IFS Level 1+, SE training.

Free discovery call

Trauma makes new things feel risky. The first 15-minute call is free; you can ask about training, approach, and pacing before you commit.

NHS for some, private for many

NHS Talking Therapies covers single-incident PTSD reasonably well; for complex trauma, dissociative difficulties, or longer-term phase-based work, private is often the practical route.

Therapy in your language

Trauma processing in a second language is harder than processing in your first. We have trauma therapists working in English and several other languages.

Online or in-person

Online trauma therapy (including EMDR) is well-established and often makes the work more accessible. Some therapists offer in-person where they're local.

Pace that fits your nervous system

Good trauma therapy is paced to your nervous system, not a textbook. We help you match to therapists who understand that.

Why choose MatchyMatch for trauma therapy?

MatchyMatch is a UK platform for trauma therapy. Every therapist holds professional registration — with a UK body (BACP, UKCP, HCPC, BPS) or a recognised international body — so you have verified credentials before you ever pick up the phone. Your first 15-minute discovery call with any therapist is free.

  • Free 15-minute discovery call before you commit to trauma therapy
  • Verified UK & international credentials (BACP, UKCP, HCPC, BPS, COPSI and others)
  • Online or in-person sessions, whichever suits you
  • Therapy in English and other languages — including ones the NHS rarely offers
MatchyMatch provides trauma therapy in the UK. Therapists hold professional registration with a UK accredited body (BACP, UKCP, HCPC, BPS) or with a recognised international body. The first 15-minute discovery call is free. Sessions are available online across the UK and in person where the therapist is local; therapy can be delivered in English and several other languages depending on the therapist. NHS Talking Therapies is the main NHS route in England (self-referral) and is well-suited to mild-to-moderate anxiety and depression with mostly CBT; for couples therapy, ongoing ADHD support, complex trauma, longer-term work, or therapy in a language other than English, private therapy is usually the practical route.

Take the DASS-21 stress, anxiety & depression test

Useful baseline if you're considering trauma therapy — covers stress, anxiety and depression so you can track change across treatment.

Frequently asked questions

Do I need a PTSD diagnosis to do trauma therapy?

No. Many people who experience the after-effects of trauma don't tick formal PTSD criteria — it doesn't make the experience less real, and it doesn't disqualify you from therapy. Trauma-focused therapy works with the experience, not the label.

What's the difference between PTSD and complex PTSD?

PTSD typically follows a single or contained event. Complex PTSD (cPTSD), recognised in ICD-11, follows prolonged or repeated trauma — most often relational, often in childhood. cPTSD includes the PTSD symptoms plus chronic difficulties with self-concept, emotional regulation, and relationships. Treatment is similar but typically longer and more phased.

Should I try the NHS first?

NHS Talking Therapies (England) does offer EMDR and trauma-focused CBT for PTSD. Access varies by region and is often patchy for trauma that doesn't fit a clean PTSD frame. If the wait is long or the difficulty is complex/developmental, private is often the practical route.

How long does trauma therapy take?

Single-incident PTSD often resolves with 8-16 sessions of trauma-focused CBT or EMDR. Complex trauma typically runs 1-3 years of phase-based work. Your therapist will be honest about what they expect after assessment.

What does trauma therapy cost in the UK?

EMDR and trauma specialists often charge at the higher end of UK rates — £80-£150 per session is typical. Discovery calls on MatchyMatch are always free.

I'm in crisis right now — what should I do?

If you're at immediate risk, call 999. For urgent NHS help, NHS 111 (option 2 for mental health). Samaritans (116 123) and SHOUT (text 85258) are free, confidential, and open 24/7. For sexual violence: Rape Crisis (0808 500 2222). Therapy is for the longer-term work; in a crisis, please use the services built for crisis.

Ready to take the first step?

Book a free 15-minute discovery call with one of our therapists to see whether you’re a good fit before committing to a session.

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